Don't ever try to have fun with someone's feelings, that may be an amusement for you. But remember, those feelings are someone's life.
"People begin to accept you when you accept yourself"
Do not mask yourself and pretend to be someone else. Don't put up an act for people to like you. Sure you'll be surrounded by many people but I hope you do not expect them to be genuine when you aren't. Just like people who like writing follow writing, people who like dance follow dance, your quality of act will bring you people who appreciate what you put up. Think about what will happen if a dancer is interested in writing and a writer is interested in dance? They'll start losing their art, just like that when the people around you start to see your true self they might not stick around. So instead of pretending to be what you're not, be real be raw. No one expects you to be perfect because no one is perfect. Pull out your masks and be you, be true to yourself, accept yourself the way you are, and see people accepting you for who you are not who you try to be.
"Treating yourself isn't always what self-love is about"
Pic ©Terricks Noah
Self-love isn't always about treating yourself. Self-care doesn't mean having good food in a fancy restaurant having a spa day or going on a solo trip. It isn't always doing things that shift your focus and give you joy. Self-love also means to accept yourself the way you are, to focus on your good and your bad. To understand yourself and prove to yourself that you're enough. It also means to stop running away from your flaws and accept them, adjust, and live with them until you fall in love with all your aspects and feel complete. Self-love is finding happiness in oneself. Treating yourself isn't what self-love is always about, it's much more than that."I'm learning to stop filling my voids with other people"
Pic © Erik Mclean
I'm learning to stop filling the emptiness in my life with people. I'm learning to stop avoiding my sorrows by drowning myself in other things, shifting my focus, and keeping my mind busy. I'm learning to acknowledge my fears and insecurities and uproot them from the base. I'm learning to love myself when I am full and when I am in pieces. I'm learning to spread light into my voids and appreciating their beauty, you see the shadows compliment the light, the night compliment the days, and the bad compliment the good in us. Without the bad, there will be no comparison and hence there will be no good. I'm learning to accept myself with all my fears, insecurities, and the bad side. I'm learning to accept myself as a whole. It won't be easy, but nothing good comes that easily. I'm learning to love my emptiness instead of trying to fill it with people, places, or empty promises."I'm slowly learning to believe in the person I am becoming"
Pic © Lauren York
I'm slowly learning the art of letting go.
I'm learning to let go of my insecurities, mistakes, and nightmares.
I'm slowly learning not to force things that are not meant to be.
I'm slowly learning to believe in myself.
I'm slowly learning to pave a new path for myself and leave a trail.
I'm slowly learning to love myself as a whole, including the good parts and the bad parts.
I'm slowly learning what it means to be human.
I'm learning how to live, and how to bring good changes in my life.
I'm slowly learning to accept my changes.
I'm slowly learning to believe in myself and the person I'm becoming.
"You can do everything right and still end up unhappy. So just for once, listen to yourself"
Pic © Spenser Sembrat
You are doing everything right in all the ways but still, you're not happy with it result, probably you're doing all those right things for the wrong person, who doesn't mean to stay with you. If you invest 10 million dollars in the trust on someone that you may not be able to spend, still that doesn't matter, then why do we need to give tons of love and care. There are people in your life that they don't expect more than being with you, so why don't we turn all of our trust and love towards them at least they value it. instead of doing all those things with heartless people. You exactly know who is best for you, just for once listen to yourself and stick to your inner voice.
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